The

Importance Of Friendship

Why Friendship Is Very Important

1. Loneliness leads to monotony, repetitions.

2. And monotony leads to boredom, unpleasant repetitions.

3. The next is anger. The spirit of anger steals in to tell him or remind him of many things that are going wrong. This leads to sorrows and regrets.

4. Both sorrows and regrets, if unchecked, lead to hopelessness, depression. By this time, the person is being overwhelmed by the anger and loneliness. If care is not taken, by another person staying close to him, the lonely person may start thinking of something very bad, like suicide or run mad. Both madness and suicide are terrible consequences and must be avoided by all means possible. Therefore, it is better to have a friend, whether boy or girl, instead of allowing the ugly situation to develop.

5. In some cases, after a person has stayed alone for a long time, he starts to avoid people. He shies away from meeting people and may not like to come in the public or move along the road. The person becomes introvert. This habit is not good and should not be encouraged.

6. Whenever a problem or situation is more than what you can bear, look for somebody to visit or tell your problem. Do not die in silence.

7. It is good to provide somebody to stay with a lonely person, whether the second person is a male or female. I said this because some people will say that it is not good for a male and female to stay together alone.

The question is:

Which is better?

A lonely person that runs mad and commits suicide or two persons living happily together?

Benefits Of Hugging Kids

1. Hugging improves the parent-child bond

1. It increases the love between the individuals.

2. Hugging increases the levels of oxytocin, and relieves pains, fears, doubts and loneliness.

3. Hugging is a heart-saver

4. The calming effect of oxytocin brings down the heart rate and blood pressure to a healthy level. A warm hug is an ideal way to calm people down when they’re upset.

5. 4. Hugging makes one smarter

6. Sensory touch helps in healthier brain development among children. Hugging is very good for a child’s growth and development.

7. Hugging boosts confidence, and assures people that they are loved and cared for in the family and society. This makes them develop an optimistic outlook towards life and improves their confidence and self-worth.

8. Hugging is a stress buster. High levels of cortisol, a stress hormone, can lead to anxiety and depression. Hugging balances the cortisol levels in your body and produces a calming effect, thereby reducing anxiety and stress.

9. Hugging helps reduce tantrums, outbursts.

10. Sometimes, life gets tough, and even adults tend to lose control over their emotions in unfavourable or uncontrolled situations. Hugging help them calm down and gain better control over their emotions.

11. Hugging increases resilience, the ability to withstand stresses and difficulties.

12. Hugging teaches empathy – love and sympathy.

13. Hugging is good for health mental and physical health.

14. Hugging is an immune booster.

15. Hugging helps in physical growth. Hugging stimulates the senses, which in turn, ensures proper physical growth

16. Hugging makes one happy and increases our happiness.

17. Hugging creates and re-enforces the bond of unity, between parents and children, and between the members of a group.

18. Hugging helps our children feel safe & secure

19. Hugging lets them know we understand how they feel

20. Hugging relaxes muscles

21. Hugging teaches our children how to give and receive, and to forgive and forget.

22. Hugging promotes the sense of belonging, makes people know that they are valued members of the family, group or society.

23. Hugging tells people that they not only important, but also highly appreciated.

Why You Should Not Hug Everybody

1. Some people do not observe the rites of holiness.

2. To avoid defilements.

3. Avoid hugging, if and where it will lead to sexual immorality.